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Following my heart as an entrepreneur, coach and motivational speaker. Passionate about property, people, economics, politics and the environment. My greatest joy is speaking to people to show them what a beautiful place the world can be and how they form an integral part of the big picture.

Tuesday, 8 January 2013

So you made your New Year's resolution to lose weight and have broken your diet already. 


Do not despair  this is a process and will never be an overnight success. You spent years (maybe many years) to put it on and it won't come off overnight.

It is exactly 1 year ago that I made the decision to lose the weight  had steadily put on over 20 years. Like most of you I have tried just about every diet with varying levels of success but always returned to my old habits and invariably put it all back on with interest.

So what is the diet that worked for me?

Firstly I needed a diet that fitted in with my lifestyle and not the other way round. I lead an active social and business life and the last thing I need is a restrictive calorie diet when I have business functions and socials to attend and wha fun is life if you are continually starving.

After having embarked on the traditional restrictive calorie diet and exercise regime and following it to the letter, I was devastated to only lose 6 kilograms after 6 months. I could not understand it. I was eating less than my 9 year old and still not losing weight. I decided to see my doctor and tell him about my dilemma. he listened, smiled and suggested I try the Tim Noakes diet that everyone was talking about. Yes, the protein, high fat, low carbohydrate diet. He suggested I try this but did not give me much detail but was as interested as I was and took a range of tests so that he could measure my progress from a medical perspective.

Do your own research

I can, and will give you all the details but there is nothing more empowering than doing your own research. The internet is full of information, sift through it and decide or yourself if this could work for you. Not following exactly what someone else said was half my success. What works for one person will not necessarily work for you so learn, test, review and see what works for you.

The first thing I discovered was that it was not Tim Noakes' diet but has been around for ages and is known by several other names such as The Drinking Man's Diet, the Cave Man diet, the paleo diet and the Atkins diet. I also saw that it has had a lot of bad press over the years but nearly all of the new research is pointing to a higher protein, lower carb intake being the way to go.

So how does it work?

I was keen to understand what was happening so here is my non medical understanding of what happens following this new diet.

Firstly, our bodies need energy to function and that energy comes from the conversion of glucose into energy and glucose comes primarily from the conversion of carbohydrates into glucose. We eat carbohydrates and the body releases insulin which breaks dow the carbohydrates into glucose, which is used for energy and if we have too much, it stores the balance as fat for later use.

There are two interesting things that struck me. Theist was that some us are carbohydrate resistant. Our bodies don't react well to the carbohydrates and the conversion process is not as easy as previously described leading to bursts of insulin release, meaning our sugar levels go up and down leading to tiredness, lethargy and a host of other symptoms. That was me in a nutshell. By 5pm in the afternoon I was so tired I need a sleep!

The second thing was the body does not store a lot of glucose available for energy, In fact only about 48 hours worth. If it is not used it gets converted to fat. So the diet works like this.

For 48 hours, EAT NO CARBOHYDRATES. This depletes the body's store of readily available glucose and it then looks around and looks for another easily converted form of energy and that is FAT. Yes, after 48 hours on no carbohydrates, your body starts to convert fat into energy. This was the most exciting part of me. After 48 hours, the felling of bloatedness started disappearng, for the first tme in yeas I could feel samll hunger pangs, I had more energy and the best part of all, I could see the weight starting to disappear as my scale started moving downwards on a daily basis. You do start adding carbohydrates again, but I would suggest you go on a carbohydrate free week if yo can but absolutely for at least 48 hours

There is nothing more frustrating than starving yourself only to see you have lost 500 grams in a week. Initially I saw massive weight loss losing 10 kilograms in one month. It does slow down as you get closer to goal weight but exactly the start and motivation I needed.

So what can you eat?

Perhaps you are asking what can't I eat? Carbohydrates ae measured in gams and you should be resricting yourself ,after you carbohydrate fast,  to less than 30 - 50 grams of carbohydrates per day. Look on the labels, everything is listed and you will soon find that they have sneaked in carbohydrates almost everywhere especially in things I used to regard as health such as fruit juice and low fat yoghurt. Those little mini low fat yoghurts I used to regard as healthy contain 15 grams of carbohydrate. If I have a daily restriction of 40 grams per day that is huge.

The following foods need to be eliminated from your diet.


  • Sugar (Must be completely removed from your diet)
  • All sugary drinks including cola drinks and sweetened fruit juices
  • Bread
  • Rice
  • Pasta
  • Potatoes
  • Porridge
  • Breakfast cereals
  • Some high energy fruits like bananas
  • All confectionary – cakes and sweets
  • Desserts containing sugar and carbohydrates
  • Artificial sweetners and products containing these products (like “diet” colas)
  • Vegetable oils containing high concentrations of omega 6 fatty acids

Notes from my experience


  • Be careful of fruit and some vegetables. Find out the carbohydrate count before you gorge yourself. Some of them are very high in carbohydrates especially fruit - fruit juice is  no-no
  • I continued using sweeteners as a can't bear bitter coffee or tea but then I only have about 2 cups per day
  • I did not initially like the taste of water so stuck to diet cola's. My body has a maximum capacity of about 500 mls per day and from experience any more than that and the weight started moving up again, I presume from water retention.
And what can you eat?

  • Eggs – from free range hens
  • Fish – an excellent source of omega 3 fatty acids
  • Meat – not processed and preferably from sources that are organically raised eating grass.  This group includes biltong, preferably game or ostrich.
  • Dairy Produce – milk, cheese and yoghurt – all full cream and from organically fed cows.
  • Vegetables – mainly leafy, low carbohydrate sources like lettuce but also including broccoli, tomatoes, mushrooms, onions, avocado and many others.  The choice is based on their nutrient value and their low carbohydrate content.
  • Nuts – especially macadamias, walnuts and almonds but specifically excluding the non-nuts, peanuts and cashews which are high in carbohydrates.
  • Fruits – only those which have a lower carbohydrate content like berries and apples.
  • Water, tea and coffee (all unsweetened)!

For me this was like heaven. Being a good South African boykie, what a pleasure!

Bacon and eggs for breakfast, maybe a chicken or tuna salad for lunch and a fat steak for dinner. I alternated with braai's and really learned to accessorise my meals with really nice salads. A traditional greek salad of lettuce, tomato, cucumber, feta cheese, olives with either a good olive oil was a perfect addition to a steak covered with a creamy mushroom sauce made from butter and real cream.

I discovered a two egg omelette (with cheese if desired) was a perfect breakfast for me and have now got it down to a fine art and takes about 4 minutes.

Chicken or tuna salad for lunch with salad as above mixed with a little mayonaisse (yes that's free as well being eggs and oil) was a perfect lunch time snack.

Before I get carried away with all the great things you can eat let me finish with this.

  • Do some reading and understand what you are doing
  • Take some pictures of the fat you and measure yourself on the scale daily and keep records.
  • I used a food diary t check what and how much I was eating. If you pick up weight, check what you ate and make sure you have the correct carbohydtates
  • Get started, Not Monday, tomorrow!!
Good luck. In the next article I will be giving you more tips of things I have learned on your journey and if you have any questions do not hesitate to ask

The BIG POSITIVE GUY

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Sunday, 4 November 2012

Climbing your own Everest


I am shocked but delighted! When I went on my own personal voyage to climb my personal Everest, I never thought it would create such a stir and generate so much interest. 

My story is simple and sadly far too common. I am not sure when I lost it, but in my 30's, I got caught up in "life" and forgot to look after ME. Slowly I picked up a few kilograms a year, about 2-3, a year, and before I knew it I was enormous.

As a public speaker, being in the spotlight did not help much, but perhaps it was the trigger that I needed to get up off the couch and do something about it. Speaking to an audience in August last year, I was passionately encouraging them to tackle those issues in their lives that would substantially improve the quality of their lives, when the thought occurred to me. How can they believe me when my own personal Everest was so obvious and why was I not doing anything about it. That was the moment I decided that I had had enough. It was time for a change.

It was not an instantaneous success story! I have tried and failed, but every time I have gone back to my original decision, changed my plans and worked at it. 

Now just over a year later, I am 40 kilograms lighter and I can honestly say that it has changed my life.

So many of you face your own challenges and I have had so many requests to share my story, so here it is.

For many of you, weight is the challenge but I want to stress that it is not a diet that it going to change your life, but a change in your mindset. That is why I believe that the process I am going to share with you, works just as well in losing a few kilograms as much as it will assist you with your finances, relationships and whatever changes you need to bring about in your life. 

Many of you would have heard my presentation "The winner takes it all" in one of the Dykes Van Heerden Slabbert training seminars. To Louis and his team, I would like to express my appreciation for the platform and the honour of being allowed into your lives and hopefully to inspire and guide you in taking a new direction in your lives

I am not a doctor, nutritionist or exercise specialist. I am a normal person who has been able to transform my life and I trust that you will be able to do the same. So many of you have written to me in desperation, pleading for the diet and will share it with you but not now.

How can I be so cruel? The reason is this. Almost all of us want to change something in our lives, lose a few kilograms and yet very few of us are successful. Do we lack motivation? I don't think so. Do we lack will power? Perhaps. You could google diets all on your own but the chance of you being successful is minimal.

The reason is that we need to change our minds first. It has to become a life decision. A irrevocable decision that will become a guide for you, when times get tough and life overwhelms you. We all have experienced yo-yo diets. Our weight goes down and shoots up even faster. I do not want that for you.

We are going to change this one step at a time and this time, we want it to a be permanent. So be patient, and trust in the process.

The first step in the process is to clearly identify what it is you want to change. Is it your weight, your finances, your relationships. What is that one thing that if you could change it would make the most difference to your life. Don't treat this lightly. It is a serious question and one you need to consider carefully. 

Think why it is so important to you: how did you get here in the first place. How will it change my life and what will be the price of the change.

I will be sending you updates frequently or you can come to the blog at any point and reread any of the posts to keep it fresh in your mind. Lastly, I am not doing this for financial reward, but from a genuine desire to help you change your life for the better. I know the difference it has made in mine and I want that for you as well.

Remember you don't just rush out and start climbing Everest. That is a recipe for failure. Failing to plan is just as good as planning to fail. 


FIRST STEPS TO CLIMBING YOUR OWN EVEREST    

  • Identify the mountain you want to climb. Is it your weight? Is it your finances or do you want to have a better relationship with your spouse, parents or children? Do you want a better job or would you like to follow your passion and just do not know how? Don't rush out and climb the first mountain you see. Be clear in your mind, which mountain you want to climb that will make the most difference in your life.
  • How did you get here? Life is all about choices. Somewhere you made a choice and perhaps it has not turned out as well as you liked. Maybe you developed some bad habits and now you are struggling to change them. Perhaps you just got caught up in life and now you find yourself in a place you do not want to be. Knowing where you are now, is half the battle in finding the right path you want to be on.
  • Identify those roadblocks which you may encounter on the way. You know they will be there, they always are. If you want to get somewhere and you find your way blocked, we do not give up and go somewhere else. We work out how to get around the obstacle, find another route and if needs be, blast the obstacle out of our way. What blocks do you anticipate in your path to change? Start thinking how you are going to get around or through them.
  • Be clear of your destination. Do you want to climb to base camp or do you want to get to the top of the mountain. The first step in goal setting is to be specific. Know exactly where you want to go. If it is your weight, decide on a goal. It's a non debatable. We don't go on holiday to some place. We pick a destination and we head unerringly towards that. It's the same with life goals. We know where we are going to and we head there, no matter what gets in our way.


HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT IT?

I am reminded of the young college athlete who approached the best coach he knew to ask him if he would coach him. The coach agreed and asked the young man to meet him on the beach at 5.00am in the morning.

The young man was so excited. He put on his trainers and rushed to the beach the next morning, expecting a rigorous work out, the first step to his Olympic dreams. When he arrived, he was surprised when the coach took him by the hand and led him into the ocean. He did not full understand what was happening but followed the coach deeper and deeper until they were chest deep in the freezing water.

Then, without warning the coach grabbed the young man from behind, and pushed him underwater. He struggled but the coach was too strong. Just when he thought he was going t drown the coach let him surface. He started shouting out his indignation and down again he went. This time he started swallowing water and he was sure he was going to drown. Again the coach lifted his head above the water.

"What are you doing" he screamed at the coach

The coach calmly replied, "When you want to achieve your goals, as much as you want the air right now, then you are ready."

My question to you, is how much do you want this. Are you drowning? When you want to achieve your goals as much as you want to breathe, then you are ready. It's your decision and your life. Let's live it to the maximum